I was listening to a lady tell of how she had lived ten years with something she really didn't like.
When she was asked, "Why she didn't change it?" she responded, "I guess I adapted to it."
That brought to me the thought if there are things that have beeen adapted to by family systems rather than face change.
The avoidance of change can bring about adapting to things the way they are.
The acceptance of change can also bring about adapting to the way things are.
Either way "adapting" is a big part of living with things that need changing or living with a change in itself.
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