"Flashlights" by Susan Pearl

Imagine that each of us is given a flashlight.

Inside the flashlight are two batteries-

One battery is "Respect"-

   the other battery is "Dignity".

In order for the flashlight to shine

  both batteries of "Respect" and "Dignity" have to be working properly.

Now, during the dark times,

  each one of us is asked to shine our flashlight.

How many flashlights would we see to brighten the dark times?

If our flashlight doesn't work-

Let's change out the batteries to be ones that will brighten the way.

"Respect" and "Dignity" is a universal right of all people,

because all people are created equal

and all people have a right 

   to be treated with "Respect" and "Dignity".

Let us shine this fact throughout any dark time

  and bring light onto the subject.

"Awareness for Choices to Meet Circumstances" by Susan Pearl

 Some days are "canoe days"

The circumstances of shallow submerged rocks make it a "canoe day".

Some days are "speed boat days"

The deep water allows for the speed of having fun water activities

   or the ability to travel fast and cover a lot of distance in a short amount of time.

There can be days of "troll fishing"

Easy, relaxing, effortless but still having a favorite pass time of fishing

   that makes for a special day of enjoyment.

Choices add to the quality of life- 

not only that those same choices can add to the safety and abilities of specific

   needs being met.

When approaching the needs of the day- 

   one need is to have a proper approach for that particular day.

It is good to be aware of  the choices to meet different circumstances of the day

   and that there is more than one way to do things.

"Best Wishes" by Susan Pearl

 Together, for the good of all, we will continue on,

Together, for the good of all, we will continue strong,

For "the good of all" comes from love,

"Best Wishes For All" is what such love speaks of-

So "Best Wishes" to one and all!

Together , no matter where-no matter who,

We will continue to be a star of love shining through.

"Loose Ends Cause Problem" by Susan Pearl

 Yesterday I decided it was time to organize my yarn,  I love to crochet and usually go from one project to another, or have two projects going at the same time- so there are times I have a lot of yarn beside me all piled up for easy access. This yarn organization project turned into quite big a project of its' own because it had become entangled.  The yarn was especially entangled through and around to handle of a carry bag.  The bag couldn't even be used until freed from the entanglement from the yarn.

The first thing I did was look for all the loose ends.  I had to find the loose ends before I could untangle the bag handle.  The bag had become dysfunctional because of  being attached to the yarn.

As I was finding all the loose ends I thought about that maybe when there are too many loose ends in life we can become entangled in them.  I have heard in life "to take care of the loose ends" and I could understand why.  These loose ends can entangle us to not be able to function as good as we can.

It feels good today to have my yarn sorted and put into organized containers and it is wonderful to be able to use my carry bag again.  It takes time to untangle the loose ends but it is worth it in more ways than one. 

"Of Course" by Susan Pearl

 When I am tired and don't know what to do-

---I can count on the strength of others to lead me through.

People's strength to meet the need is steady like from a constant source-

 and that source comes from love-----of course.

Love is unending and love cannot be contained-

 year after year that fact will remain the same.

So, whatever, the need is or how weary the journey may be, too,

The strong and steady force of love will be there for me and for you.

Yes, love will see us through, of course-

For love is an unending, uncontainable source for a strong, steady and constant

 goodwill force- "of course".

"Brings Fullness" by Susan Pearl

 It's been over six months since I lost my brother, Ron.

And I don't ever know when a thought of him-

  is going to "pop in"

I made it through my birthday just fine,

But now this holiday season he is coming to mind.

I see it as an extra gift to celebrate knowing him

And continue on and continue being strong,

  because I know that is what he would want for me, my dear brother, Ron.

Enjoy and be thankful for the time that is given

  brings fullness to the life we are living. 

"Range of Emotions" by Susan Pearl

 From the top of the mountain-

     to the valley so low.

This range of emotions-

   I happen to know.

All I can say-

    is that in my writings these emotions I convey.

We all can identify-

   with joy and laughter or sorrow with a tear in eye.

And those middle times, too,

   knowing that faith, hope and love are leading us through-

Connecting us in a certain way

   to all believe in a better day. 

  

"Meaning Gives Meaning" by Susan Pearl

 We are downsizing in sections.  A couple years ago we concentrated on nick knacks and other things that we enjoyed for many years and hoped some else would enjoy them, also.  A small wall ceramic beautiful clock was a little hard to part with for me.  The colors were so lovely and I had enjoyed it above the phone for over fifteen years.  But away it went to be be displayed with other things we sent to a community sale.

Our daughter said that a man was looking up and down our tables of things and he was actually visibly struck when he saw the ceramic clock.  He picked it up saying, "My grandmother had one just like this and I loved it.  My sister loved it, too, so I let her have it".  He was so happy and bought it.

Once in awhile when I look at our phone I still kind of think of the lovely ceramic clock we had above it for so many years.  But then very happy thoughts flood my mind when I think of the man having the clock on display in his home and how special it is to him and how special it was to him the the day he found it.  It was obvious it had meaning to him and maybe even made a meaningful story for them to tell others.

Somehow, these thoughts bring me more meaning and much more enjoyment than to still have the clock above the phone. 

"The Casserole Laugh" by Susan Pearl

 I made a roux yesterday.  We were fixing a vegetable and pasta casserole and I thought a cheese roux would be wonderful to add.  I didn't use a recipe because I think I have a natural cooking talent and for some things I don't need directions.

Later my husband said that he thought the roux was too thick.  I told him that I thought he liked thick gravy.  My husband and that, "Yes", he likes thick gravy, "but you should be able to shake it off of the spoon". 

I said, "MY, YOU'RE A BRAVE MAN.  That comment could spark an eruption.  All I can say is that it can be remedied with more liquid and it sure is a good thing that I am in a good mood today." We laughed and everything turned out to make a fine recipe with only adding more liquid to the roux.  Otherwise it could have been a recipe for disaster if we couldn't shake the casserole off of the spoon.

"Not a Good Idea" by Susan Pearl

When we first moved to the country it was a brand new experience to me.  The drive way to our house had an unique circle if parking by the front porch.  I wanted that area to be exceptionally pretty so I decided to put in a rock garden in the circle of the drive.

My husband cautioned me me that he did not like rocks because they attract snakes.  Snakes like to sun on the rocks and snakes like to hide under the rocks.  I promised him I would be very watchful.

One day I was working in the rock garden and I saw something light in color that almost looked like a  long piece of paper.  I reached for it and as I removed it I realized it was a snakeskin.  That's all it took.  I realized the rock garden was not a good idea....so "bye-bye" rock garden.  I think a very short frequently mowed stand of grass would be a better idea and, in fact, much easier, too.

My vision of having a beautiful rock garden came to a sudden end the moment I found the snakeskin.

"Thanksgiving Preparations" by Susan Pearl

 Thanksgiving Day is one of my favorite times of the year.

There are preparations to be made for the day.

Now that I am older I realize there is ,also, a preparation time of my mind for Thanksgiving.

Really, it can, be three or four days of preparation.

So with thanksgiving less than a week away I am starting to prepare for this beautiful day.

The first element is "appreciation". To be thankful we truly have to have an "appreciation" and special meaning for the people and things we are thankful for.

Next we must be "grateful" for them.  This is humbling to realize we have been given a lot. By knowing and receiving all these gifts in life we are not only humbled we are amazed by the awesomeness of it all.

Another part of thanksgiving is to have "joy" in seeing others enjoy the fruits of our labors.  It gives us happiness to see their happiness.  They may now have their own thanksgiving and we are happy for them.  

The "appreciation", the "gratitude" and the "joy" are woven into the strong fabric of "love"  All of this makes something beyond beautiful because it covers time, space and distance.  It covers all situations,  settings, family dynamics, family systems and even pandemics. It covers having "the good for all" and thankful efforts this outcome comes to be------time and time again.

We don't have to embrace or see each other face to face for thanksgiving to take place.  Let us prepare with, appreciation, gratitude, joy and and love and continue living a life that works towards the good for all in any way we that can do so---- and have a---------- "HAPPY THANKSGIVING".

"Did it Happen in the Sixties?" by Susan Pearl

Because of my age I went through my teen age years during the "sixties".   The "sixties" were called an age of enlightenment.  It went forward with promoting a new culture of freedom as a way of life that is not inhibited for having true self expression.  It has been sixty years since the "sixties".  The time that has passed has brought about a whole generation being raised by "the sixties" concept of freedom and viewpoints to live a free life that is not limited to old standards and narrowmindedness.

Over twenty years ago years ago I was sitting by a young woman who was obviously angry.  It was close to the holidays and so I just casually asked "Are you going to be with family for the holidays"?  She looked directly at me and said,  "I don't have a family.  I never had a family.  They never knew who my dad was and my mother died from an overdose when I was one year old, I ran away from every foster home I was ever placed in and I'm telling you the system doesn't work".  Somehow, I automatically asked, "Did it happen in the sixties"?

She answered abruptly "No, it was 1970".  To this day I think of her and wonder how her life went.  I hope it has gone well for her.

The reason I am writing this is to give my humble opinion that sometimes the differences of we face now may have been put into place many years ago and have grown to be recognized, respected and even appreciated for the insight and their truth   Generations have had completely different experiences in life and that is all they have ever known. They want to have their reality to be part of the picture in a very real way and with an awareness for all to see.  This is meant for the benefit of all to bring the understanding needed for coming together in a renewed way with better insights and perceptions for the years to come.

It can work out when everyone is wanting the best for all and willing to work for it and willing to change to accommodate progress for a greater good.   

"To Rest Can Be Moving On" by Susan Pearl

 In my opinion there are times that it is best to let things rest.

To know when or when not to let things rest is a personal judgement call.

We are the only ones who know what we have been through to be where we are today,

  the hard work, the broken relationships, the kept relationships- 

   the efforts of following one's heart and conscience for the good of all-

   may transpire into making a timely decision to "let things rest". 

In my personal journey, if it took considerable efforts to "not" have something in my life

because I could see it was not only taking a toll on me but it was taking a toll on others, 

whom I love--

I let it rest and not give any avenue for it to come back into my life.

I leave the door of entry boarded up and even if someone knocks on it--

I don't open it to what was before.

I think it is best to not project the past into the the future

   and sometimes to do that--

It is best to let things rest.

To see what the future will hold

we do not have to replicate the old.

We learn, we grow and we move on--

Sometimes a big part of moving on is to "let things rest"-

  and truly knowing it is for the best.

 

"I Didn't Mind" by Susan Pearl

Lately, my husband and I are making homemade bread in the bread machine more often.   It is absolutely a treat and so delicious to have a warm slice of homemade bread.

I remember visiting with a lovely elderly lady many years ago.  She told me of raising her family and making nine loaves of bread twice a week.  I must have exclaimed, "Oh, My"!!!  because I remember her saying, "I didn't mind" and then giving a beautiful smile with love glistening from her eyes.

I could tell the joy of seeing her family enjoying her homemade bread meant so very much to her.  She made more than bread because, with me, she made an impression ---and a lasting impression it is.

Now I am an elderly lady and her words, "I didn't mind", still reach my heart more than ever before.  She made more than nine loaves of bread twice a week--she made wonderful memories, and her sharing of those memories with the words, "I didn't mind", made a lasting impression on me.  We just don't know how far our efforts and acts of kindness will reach or who they will touch in the years to come.

"SO SMALL BUT SO SIGNIFICANT" BY SUSAN PEARL

HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF A DOT-

  A LITTLE TINY DOT-

I THOUGHT NOT.

LIKE THE DOT THAT IS THE "FINISHING TOUCH" OF HANDWRITING A WORD

 AND IS PLACED ABOVE A  SMALL "i" OR "j"---

OR THE PERIOD DOT THAT SHOWS WHEN ONE SENTENCE "ENDS"

 AND THE NEXT SENTENCE "BEGINS"--- 

OR HOW ABOUT MORSE CODE?

DOTS CAN SIGNAL A MESSAGE (EVEN DISTRESS)

OR HOW ABOUT THE DECIMAL DOT?

LIKE THE DOT AFTER THE DOLLAR AMOUNT TO SHOW THE CENTS.

OR A DECIMAL POINT TO SHOW THE FRACTION AMOUNT?

WHEN I WAS GROWING UP I LOVED MY DOT TO DOT BOOK.

DOTS ARE FUN.  DOTS ARE INFORMATIVE.

DOTS DO A LOT!!!

DOTS SHOW A LOT!!!

DOTS SHOW ACCURACY.......PRECISE....EXACTLY RIGHT---

THAT ONLY A DOT CAN DO.

SO LET'S APPRECIATE THE DOT....

AND THINK HOW SOMETHING SO SMALL IS SO SIGNIFICANT.

"Surprise Salad Check Out" by Susan Pearl

 My sister-in-law, my husband  and I were going to eat a salad at a hospital cafeteria.  I noticed that the salad bar was set up like a buffet and then to pay for the salad a person would be charged 30 cents an ounce.  My sister-law-law went first.  She put lettuce and alfalfa sprouts and a couple other lightweight salad items on her plate and was ready to check out. I think her salad was three ounces and it cost a ninety cents

I was next in line and I was very hungry.  I had covered the lettuce on my plate with lots of my favorite shredded cheese.  Then on top of that I had put lots of other favorites--bacon bits and cubed ham.  Then I put a few cherry tomatoes, cucumber slices and topped it all with thousand island dressing and bread croutons.  Since I was so hungry I thought another layer of shredded cheese, bacon bits and cubed ham should do it.  I was ready to check out.  My salad weighed one and a half pounds and cost over seven dollars.  I must say I was a little embarrassed as I asked my husband if he had a couple of one dollar bills to go with my five dollar bill.  It seemed like everyone was shaking their head as if they had never seen anything like it before.  All eyes were on my seven dollar salad.

We sat down at a table and ate our salads but I really felt so surprised at how expensive my salad was.

I learned that when something is being charged by the ounce to keep it light.  

"Two Different Philosophies" by Susan Pearl

Many years ago was a time in our life when we made an annual eight hour drive to see our daughter and family.

The route we chose to take was very desolate for several hours on the trip.  One time we drove for over an hour and didn't see another car.  We live in a rural area and little traffic and no city driving are more comfortable and familiar to us.

Some friends asked if I could come with them to where our daughter lived because they would appreciate my help on the trip.  They would be driving back an extra vehicle and I could read the road map for the wife if needed.  I was happy to go with them and have an opportunity to see family again.

I noticed the route that they took was a different route then my husband and I took.

This route was very busy with traffic and had a large city to navigate through to make the necessary

highway exchanges to stay on route.  I commented that we took another way and didn't have traffic or city driving.  They replied by telling me that they didn't feel comfortable to take that route because it was too desolate. They said if they needed help there wouldn't be anyone.

This intrigued me because they were choosing one way and we chose another way to go to the same destination.  Two different ways, no right or wrong, both have advantages and disadvantages,  I was surprised they chose traffic and they were surprised we would take such a desolate way.

Does this mean we had two different philosophies and still liked each other? 

"Well, It's Like This" by Susan Pearl

Many years ago, when I was young,  I heard about a helpful hit that to make you house smell good.  The helpful hint was to slightly warm a pan on the stove, remove the pan from heat and sprinkle cinnamon into the warmed pan.  Then just wait and a lovely fragrance will fill the house. I thought that helpful hint sounded easy enough so I did it before running some errands.

When I got home I was surprised to see my husband in the kitchen.  He had been opening and shutting the cupboard doors, looked in the refrigerator, checked the oven and he appeared frustrated.

He said to me, "I have looked everywhere and can't find what you made that smells so good".

I looked at him and said, "Well. It's like this".

He replied, "That seems so disappointing".   

I then made a delicious dessert with cinnamon in it.  I didn't ever use that helpful hint again.

 

"Without One Word" by Susan Pearl

Sometimes we don't have to say one word-

   because, our life speaks for itself.

"A New Now From Then" by Susan Pearl

It has been a couple of years since you passed on into eternity,

I pause and reflect when your picture on the wall I see.

At first your picture made me feel of you being near-

And your smiling face I held so dear,

As if I could kiss or embrace you again-

But years have moved me on from then.

You have gone on to a timeless place

While I am still here in this temporary space.

Timeless and temporary are an eternity apart,

And your memory is dear in my heart,

But now when I see your picture I think of you as being gone-

You were once here, but no longer, I have been left to carry on.

The years have moved me on to find a wonderful love again,

The years have moved me on to a new now from then.  

"Old Sayings With the Generation Who Learned Them" by Susan Pearl

Dear Readers,

I have suggested to use "Old Sayings" for learning sessions and conversations with children especially with this time of school being taught at home more because of COVID-19 precautions.

I, also, would like to suggest that for loved one's with memory issues it can be surprising how many "Old Sayings" they can finish or recite together.  This generation was taught the "Old Sayings" and these sayings are stored in their memory. Sometimes this can be a connection to have some quality time together and be in the moment together which means a lot.

So with memory loss for loved ones the "Old Sayings" can be a special time of together.  I have seen this happen when I was an Activity Director at a nursing home for thirteen years and wanted to share this with you.

Thank You.  

Best Wishes,

Susan Pearl 

"Passing on Heart to Heart Conversations" by Susan Pearl

Hi Readers,

Recently, I have posted 125 "Old Sayings" and how these "Old Sayings" were explained to me as a child growing up in the 50's.  I have heard that "Old Sayings" develop the higher thinking skills by bringing a visual image to mind to match the situation.  "Old Sayings"are very useful to use in communication of a complex setting in an understandable way to many at the same time.

During these COVID-19 changes for children and more virtual learning I would encourage parents to discuss  "Old Sayings" with their children as a discussion for sharing thoughts and ideas. 

I am sharing how the "Old Sayings" were explained to me.  Maybe, that same "Old Saying" was explained in a different way to someone else.  Or, maybe, a new explanation can be applied to today's settings and circumstances.

The "Old Sayings" have been used by several generations and are still an applicable part of conversations and expressions for different topics in a sincere heart to heart way.

I know I am very glad that 'Old Sayings" were are part of what I was taught as a child and that people took the time to explain them to me.   I truly am appreciative of the time they gave me to understand the application and meaning.  It has been a special part of my way of listening to others and conveying my own thoughts of making a point in a concise way.  I have posted blog dates for the "Old Sayings" that I posted these past few months.

Ask questions about what the "Old Sayings" mean , draw a picture of the "Old Saying" and explain the picture to others, talk about choices, support systems and ways for the best possible outcomes to happen with what we can to do help better times come to be for the good and benefit of all people.

Thank You.

Best Wishes, 

Susan Pearl

  

Dates of Blogs for "Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Dates of blogs for an addition 10 "Old Sayings"  (125 in total)

Previous blog dates for "Old Sayings"----  4-19-2020,    4-26-2020,   5-3-2020,   5-9-2020

                                                                     5-30-2020,   6-26-2020,   7-9-2020,   8-7-2020                                                                                           

                                                                     and today's date:  8-20-2020

August 20, 2020

1.  It's as easy as falling off a log".

2.  "Go with the flow".

3.  It's as hard as pulling horse's teeth".

August,18,2020

4.  "Water,water everywhere and not a drop to drink".

August 17,2020

5.  "Two's company.  Three's .  crowd".

6.  "I felt like a fifth wheel".

7.  "The more the merrier".

August 15, 2020

8.  "Like a chip off the old block".

August 14,2020

9.  "Your goose is cooked".

10.  "He (she) cooked his (her) own goose when he (she).....".

"Old Sayings Picture Easy and Hard Tasks Coming Together" by Susan Pearl

"It was as easy as falling off a log".

 "Go with the flow".

"It was like pulling horse's teeth".

It is easy to picture these old sayings and instantly understand how very easy one "Old Saying" is and how very hard the task of the other "Old Saying" would be.

If someone had a project and everything fell into place very easily that person could say, "It was as easy as falling off a log."  In fact, it would have been harder for it to have gone any other way.  To "Go with the flow" is recognizing current opportunities and open windows in time to have a  chance for things to connect to and become a real and viable active part of the scene.  Sometimes things can go our way.

But there are times, too, of real struggle and persistence to accomplish a hard and needed effort to attain the exact results that are being hoped to achieve.  Sometimes those hard efforts are precisely what is needed at the moment of opportunity to fall into place.  

So we must remember that life is a combination and blend of hard and easy times coming together for having progress and an ever ongoing forward motion.

"Old Saying Appreciates an Important Staple of Life" by Susan Pearl

"Water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink".

Safe water to drink is a wonderful blessing.  When I think of this "Old Saying" I think of being in a life raft on the ocean hoping to be found and hoping for rain. I. also, think of too much rain on the land causing a deluge of flooding.  "Water-water everywhere but not a drop to drink".

But you don't have to be in a life raft on the ocean or in a flood to say this "Old Saying".  Even living by a river doesn't mean there is fresh water to drink because of animals using the same river.  Now we are getting green algae on lakes that make it not safe for people or pets to go for recreation.  "Water-water everywhere but not a drop to drink and in some cases water recreation areas not to swim in.

It is wonderful to see water wells being dug in countries who need drinkable water.  Conservation of water is important and we should appreciate every drink of safe water we take.  Otherwise, if we don't have a fresh, flowing spring well of water to use and we would have to do it for ourselves we would realize that if is it is not safe drinkable water everything else is, "Water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink".  We would have to boil it and do what needs to be done to filter and make the water safe to drink.  It would be a life of appreciation for safe water and a realization of that without safe drinking water all else is is "Water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink".      

Old Sayings Illustrate Different Settings for Good Times Together" by Susan Pearl

"Two's company, three's a crowd".

"I felt like a fifth wheel".

"The more the merrier".

These various "Old Sayings" describe different settings for a festive or enjoyable time with someone else.

There are times when a couple just want to be together.  A third person would feel like a "crowd" rather than a one to one evening with the only attention going to that one special person.   Some couples have a "date night" to be together. Even another couple joining them doesn't seem like a crowd.  But if a fifth person joins the two couples that person is referred to as a "fifth wheel".   There are times when a couple just want to have their evening to just be together.  So much to do and so busy during the week it is a special time to be together away from it all.

"The more the merrier" refers to those festive occasions that are more enjoyable with a lot of people there,  It is fun to see so many other people laughing and having a good time.  They bring an energy and enthusiasm that adds to the festive atmosphere.  At a dance it is enjoyable to watch good dancers on the floor and seeing the different styles of dancing while all keeping the same beat.  "The more the merrier" is what makes some occasions so much fun...there is just excitement in the air.

Now with COVID-19 there is more in the air than excitement there are flu droplets in the air that spreads the pandemic.  We have to be cautious and relearn how to follow guidelines when with others.

Smaller groups, social distancing, wearing masks, being outside---can be an enjoyable time, too.  The fact of seeing each other is the real celebration no matter what else is not the same.  It doesn't have to be a lot of people to be a celebration and we should remember this and concentrate on a small group following guidelines and learn to appreciate what we have and who we have while we can.   That will give the best of memories in the years to come. 

"Old Saying Notes Passed on Characteristics" by Susan Pearl

"A chip off of the old block".

To describe how I was taught this "Old Saying" it does start out to literally think of a block of wood.  Then think of a chip of wood off of that block of wood.  The chip of wood would have the same characteristics as the block of wood.

Then to think of the "Old Saying " in a figurative way would be that I new an old timer man who lived on a very well kept farm.  He had the strongest work ethic I had ever seen.  He was good at repairing things and fixing anything that needed fixed.  His crops were planted and harvested on time.  The few cattle he had were well cared for and he enjoyed how the cows would run to the pickup when he brought them feed.  He was glad to do it and see them eating even though it had been work loading the feed each day.

The old timer man had a son and the son has a very well kept place.  He has a very strong work ethic and can be counted on to do the work right no matter how hard it is.  He can repair or fix just about anything but the metric system and technology ways are not his cup of tea.  He is timely and enjoys doing things right and wouldn't have it any other way.

I think it is fair to say that the son is  "A chip of the old block".

"Old Saying Describes Actions for Misbehavior" by Susan Pearl

"Your goose is cooked".

"He (she) cooked his own goose when he (she)…."

This old saying has nothing to do with a goose or with cooking.  It has everything to do with a person's reputation or actions that take away from others having a favorable opinion of that person.  When confronted with the evidence of the misdeed the person may be told- "Your goose is cooked".  When things are brought into the light and seen for what they are- the decision is made for dismissal, or for retribution of the offense or maybe an end to the friendship or relationship.  At any rate, it means that something is "over"...and no more will the person be allowed to repeat the offense.  For instance, an example would be that "so and so" will no longer be able to do the collection basket at Sunday service because he was caught taking some of the money.  He cooked his own goose when he took the money from the collection basket.  He has been dismissed from that duty.  His goose is cooked when it comes to handling the collection basket money from now on.  The trust in him for having that responsibility is over.

"With Each New Day" By Susan Pearl

With each new day may faith become stronger by believing there is more good than not,

With each new day may hope become fuller by knowing that betterment can be,

With each new day may love become deeper by striving towards beneficial avenues of respect, peace and   goodwill for all.

Faith, Hope and Love do remain--even when things don't seem the same.

"Only Once and Why is That?" by Susan Pearl

When we lived in the country there was a springtime of year that I noticed so many tree seedlings coming up in the yard.  The seedlings looked like deciduous trees and I thought of transplanting them for making a windbreak.

So our son and I spent most the day transplanting over a hundred of the three inch seedlings to be a windbreak on the southeast side of the property.  We were excited to think of the trees growing up to make a beautiful windbreak.

After we finished our tree planting we went to town to buy groceries.  On our return trip home from town we started seeing some smoke in the distance.  As we approached our home and turned into the driveway it was obvious and concerning the smoke was in the southeast part of the property.  We ran to see what was going on.  

There stood my husband with the garden hose.  He explained that when he got home from work he decided to burn off some grass because it was such a still day.

The property next to us was a plowed field and he wanted to burn off the grass from the fence line.  I asked. "Did you see the seedlings?" He answered, "What seedlings?"

To this day I have planted over one hundred seedlings only once.

To this day my husband has burned off grass only once.

Why did it have to be on the same day?   Only Once and Why is that?

We are celebrating our 54th wedding anniversary now and this is still one of our most baffling memories.  Why is that?  I think it is because we still can't believe it happened that way- being only once and only once and on the same day.

"Make-Up Laugh" by Susan Pearl

When I was young I enjoyed wearing false eyelashes.  In fact, I didn't want to leave the house without having them on.  They were like the finishing touch to my make up.  On one night I didn't realize one of my eyelashes had fallen onto the floor as I was removing my make up and getting ready for bed.  

My husband came into the bedroom and before I knew it he rushed across the room and stomped his foot on the floor, then said, " I thought that looked like some sort of centipede." 

I said, "No, that's one of my eyelashes." 

"Dates of Blogs for Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Blog dates for an additional 15 "Old Sayings".  (115 total)

Other previous blog dates for  "Old Sayings".    4-19-2020,    4-26-2020,    5-3-2020,   

 5-9-2020,   5-30-2020, 6-26-2020,  7-9-2020  and today's date- 8-7, 2020

July 23, 2020

"It's a hard pill to swallow".

"It was a bitter pill to swallow".

July 24, 2020

"Here it is in a nutshell".

July 26, 2020

"It takes two to tango".

July 28 ,2020

"It takes one to know one".

"The hand is quicker than the eye".

July 29, 2020

"Variety is the spice of life".

July 31, 2020

"Save for a rainy day".

Aug. 3, 2020

"He (she) has his (her) fingers in too many pies".

Aug. 5, 2020

"If it sounds too good to be true it probably is".

"You get what you pay for".

"Dangling the carrot".

"You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar".

"Money can't buy happiness".

"The best things in life are free".

"Old Sayings are Bundled Together by Practical Knowlege Application" by Susan Pearl

Here are six "Old Sayings" that all connect with the application of practical knowledge.

1.  "If it sounds too good to be true it probably is".
2.  "You get what you pay for".
3.  "Dangling the carrot

4.  "You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar".

5.  "Money can't buy happiness". 

6.  "The best things in life are free".

1.  It is easy to be brought into an advertisement that seems to be showing so much fun and laughter if only a person would buy the product being advertised.  Some advertisements seem to offer instant popularity or instant answers to longstanding problems.

We can feel drawn to the enticing and intriguingly interesting thought of such a good deal and the concept for such happy results.  All we have to do is buy it or follow it then what we want will be ours.  "If it sounds too good to be true it probably is".

2.  How about buying a no guarantee tool for one dollar and it breaks the first time it is used?  All that can be said is that "You get what you pay for".

3.  "Dangling the carrot" is another "Old Saying" for applying practical knowledge.  Horses like the treat of having a carrot to eat and if a person dangles a carrot in front of the horse then the horse will keep waking towards the carrot by following the carrot.  The horse may feel free but it really has been ensnared by the manipulation of another just by "dangling the carrot".

4.  Flies are drawn and attracted to sweet honey--- so--- honey can be used to entrap and catch flies. Vinegar would not attract a fly so it would not be used.  "You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar".

5.  There is nothing on the market that can buy us happiness.  There are very many rich unhappy people.
"Money can't buy happiness".

6.  Somethings in life are priceless.  A beautiful sunset, a starry night, a gorgeous view, feeling well and the joy of loving people, a child's artwork or handmade card, heartfelt moments and wonderful memories of them.  "The best things in life are free".

"Old Saying Says Too Much is Too Much" by Susan Pearl

"He (she) has his (her) fingers in too many pies".



This old saying was used a lot when I was growing up but it had nothing to do with pies and fingers in the pies.  It was used when describing someone who was not able to fulfill a promise or something that needed to be done.  It was then said, "He (she) has his (her ) fingers in too many pies".  It was a way of expressing that person was way too busy with way too many other things to do.

Maybe our "time management" needs to be reevaluated.


Being involved with too many things at one time with too much to do is overextending ourselves.
After awhile there is nothing left for us to put our hand to because our life is totally occupied with other things and we need to recognize that we have no free time and cannot promise or take on anything more to do..  We have to learn to know our limits and learn how to say "No" when we have reached that limit..  We can only do so much.  All of us are the same and only have 24 hours in any given day.  Things can be  repetitive and roll around way too fast and it is all we can do is to keep up--yet alone adding something else to do.  Even if some are favorite things to do--too much is too much.  Maybe we should consider the thought that even though we like what we are doing it just may be "We have our fingers in too many pies".   It may be time to back off and free up ourselves to not be so involved and so busy and have some time again for ourselves.  Keep a schedule that leaves some open time for more attention to priorities as needed.

"Old Saying Tells That a Little Can Go a Long Way" by Susan Pearl

"Save for a rainy day".

When I was growing up I had a piggy bank.  I shook and shook the change out of the piggy bank to count it each week.  It was nice to see that after awhile there was enough money to buy something I would like to have
.
During life my husband and I bought things on sale.  I know those small savings here and there helped some for an unexpected car repair part, or pluming bill or an "on sale" appliance replacement.

Buying things on sale was like having a piggy bank with a little bit of savings that over time helped some with those "rainy days" unexpected expenses.

Not everyone has a certain amount of money to set aside for savings each month.  That would be ideal.  But we can watch for sales.  To buy "on sale" the things we need is a small but consistent way to "save for a rainy day".

During this COVID-19 pandemic the circumstances are extremely difficult for many people due to unemployment and businesses struggling.  Strong and steady support systems have to be in place for people to maintain housing, have food and medical care and provide choices for ways forward to get back on their feet and have an income again.

"Old Saying Adds Flavor" by Susan Pearl

"Variety is the spice of life".


When I think of variety I think of different landscapes. like the mountains, oceans, the artic and deserts.  I think of the beauty of the four seasons.  The varieties of wildlife, reptiles, fish and birds are amazing to ponder.  I think of the variety of flowers in a flower garden and the beautiful contrast of colors.  I think of food seasonings--the hot spicy, the sweet, the bitter, the salty and putting them together making something beyond delicious.
I think of the variety of activities, areas of studies, the arts and sports.  There is no reason for anyone to have a bland life because "Variety is the spice of life".

"Old Saying Calls in an Expert" by Susan Pearl

"It takes one to know one".

"Seeing is believing".

"The hand is quicker than the eye".


Sometimes after I've seen a very good magician act I like to try to figure out how the magic trick was done.  I review the magician's act in my mind to find the moment of illusion.  The moment of when the magician succeeded in making me think I saw what I really didn't see.  It is very interesting because sometimes I can figure it out quickly and other times I just don't know and have to leave it at that.  They say "The hand is quicker than the eye" so the illusion part may have been done too quickly for me to really see. They, also, say "Seeing is believing" and so until the illusion is recognized everything seems very real.

Another good magician would be able to spot the illusion better than anyone else.  The reason why one magician would know how the tricks of another magician are done  is because "It takes one to know one".

"Old Saying Shows it Takes Two" by Susan Pearl

"It takes two to tango".


What does it mean to "work in tandem"?  I know a tandem bicycle is a bicycle built for two.  The two riding the bike have to work in conjunction with each other with the person behind following the lead of the person in front.  It takes two working in conjunction with each other to make a wonderful and pleasant bike ride.

So it is with a dance except that the two people are facing each other.  These two people are moving in conjunction with each other to be dancing and one of them is designated the leader.

When describing a situation where two people were involved with the same objective and working in conjunction for it, that situation can sometimes be described by the old saying "It takes two to tango".  This Old Saying expresses that it took both of them for the events to happen the way they did.  Neither one of them could have done it alone but working in conjunction with each other they could accomplish it--- because "It takes two to tango". A tango dance takes two people--one person on the dancefloor alone is not a tango.

"Old Saying is Concise and Precise" by Susan Pearl

"Here it is in a nutshell".


So much information coming in on at any moment of any day.  Mountains of information to go through and breakdown into concise and precise explanations.  Being concise and being accurate in bringing an enormous amount of information into a smaller point by point analysis is quite a task, but it is being done to help us stay informed and make decisions based on the current facts of the day.

To bring a large amount of information into a concise format is doing the Old Saying:
"Here it is in a nutshell".

In my opinion there is another "newer saying" happening that conveys the same thought and that saying is "Here's the deal".  I am hearing that expression more and more and less of the "Old Saying" in conversations.

It is good to be able to be told a lot of information in a concise way.  Imagine a mountain of information being conveyed in such a concise way that it can be said;  "Here it is in a nutshell".

"Old Saying Expresses Heartache" by Susan Pearl

"It's a hard pill to swallow".

"It's was a bitter pill to swallow".


I watched a man being interviewed on TV telling how COVID-19 has effected his business.  He finished the interview by saying "It's a hard pill to swallow".

I remembered another time when I had heard that old saying.  An older lady was talking about her life and family.  After she told of the illness and death of their child she finished by saying--and-- "It was a bitter pill to swallow".

Old Sayings express so much in so few words.  They convey feelings that are relatable and understandable to so many at one time.

The Old Saying,
"It was a bitter pill to swallow"--or--- "it's a hard pill to swallow"  tells that something didn't turn out the way you thought it would and it is hard to take what happened.

"Blog Dates for Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Blog dates for an additional 9 Old Sayings-  (100) in total

Other previous blog dates for "Old Sayings"        4-19-2020,  4-26-2020, 5-3-2020,  5-9-2020

                                                                              5-30-2020,   6-26-2020,  7-9-2020

                                                                              and today's date---7-22-2020


7-21-2020

"One thing can lead to another".



7-19-2020

"Nip it in the bud".



7-18-2020

"As a rule of thumb".



7-17-2020

"Talking out of both sides of his (her) mouth".

"You're only as good as your word".

"Don't make promises you can't keep".



7-18-2020

"Hanging by a thread".



7-14-2020

"That's like having the carpet pulled right out from under you".



7-13-2020

"That hit the nail on the head".

"Old Saying Continues All Through Life in Different Ways" by Susan Pearl

"One thing can lead to another".

When I was very young I was told not to fight on the playground and not accept double dares because: "One thing can lead to another".

When I became a young lady and began dating I was told to take things slow because:
"One thing can lead to another".

During my working years I was told if I worked hard and was a good a faithful employee that I would be eligible for promotions because: "One thing would lead to another".

Now I am old and I continue to learn new things and enjoy life because: "One thing leads to another".

Personal note--This blog today is my 950th blog!!!

"Old Saying Stops Escalation From Getting Worse" by Susan Pearl

"Nip it in the bud".



 When we take action for something before it escalates or gets worse we "nip it in the bud".

When I think about the word "bud"  I think of the beginning formation of a bloom.  I especially think of a rosebud.  Oh, what a beautiful rose bloom awaits formation from  this bud.  But if the bud has a problem that would ruin the bloom then action should be taken to preserve the bloom while the problem is small.  "Nip it in the bud".    The word "nip" reminds me that it would be easier to do it now than later.  Things that need "nipped" don't need a big amount of attention to correct.

To nip something in the bud means to remove the problem in the beginning stages.  By not allowing the problem to escalate and become worse the chances for a better outcome are increased.  Being vigilant and watchful help us be aware of the beginning of a problem.  It is best to take action for things right away while they are still manageable.  Because once something has reached the stage of being unmanageable it is too late to "nip it in the bud".

"Old Saying Shows Guess Estimating That's Close" by Susan Pearl

"As a rule of thumb".


My thumb measures 3/4 of an inch across the middle of  the thumbnail  If something needed to be 1 and 1/2 inches long or wide I could estimate that distance by using my thumb width twice( because 3/4 inch plus 3/4 inch equals 1 and 1/2 inch).  It made not be as accurate and a ruler but it is a "rule of thumb".

The old saying "as a rule of thumb" is also used to guess an estimation of something by previous known experience of a similar setting.  Like, "as a rule of thumb" when a store owner takes inventory he (she) can see when it is time to reorder.  The "rule of thumb" is used as indictors to show approximate timing or spacing.  Actual testing and ruler measurement are more reliable but it is nice to, also, have a rule of thumb to go by in general.

"Old Saying Values People's Word" by Susan Pearl

"Talking out of both sides of his (her) mouth".

"You're as good as your word".

"Don't make promises you can't keep".

We cannot tell everyone exactly what they want to hear.  If we go to one group and promise them we will say "Yes" on an issue--- And then we go to an opposing group and promise them we will say "No" on the issue then we are  "talking out of both sides of our mouth". "Yes" is coming out of one side of our mouth and then "No" is coming out of the other side.  It makes a double standard and before long people will not believe anything we say.  Because there is another old saying "You are only as good as your word".  We should keep our promises and live up to our word.  We should not make promises we cannot keep but say only the truth as we know it at that particular time.
Some situations are fluid and constantly changing and we have to go with the last current information to keep evaluating the truth that needs to be conveyed without bias or prejudice.

"Old Saying Shows Importance of the Connections" by Susan Pearl

"Hanging by a thread".


I remember so well how surprised I was when a strand of pearls I was wearing broke and the pearls scattered over the floor.  I made up my mind that I was going to pick up as many pearls as I could find.  I did just that and even swept the floor  with a broom and used a dust pan to get every pearl that was behind or under things too heavy to move.  I was happy to retrieve the pearls from the floor and put them in a glass jar.  My intention was to restring them, however, the task was more difficult than I had anticipated.  Such tiny and small openings to thread onto a string.

I hadn't realized how worn the string had become and that the pearls were "hanging by a thread".  It took hours upon hours to restring the pearls.

It is easy to take some things for granted, and not realize how fragile the connection is becoming.

When I was growing up the old saying "Hanging by a thread" was used to express a setting of barely hanging on. If a business was" hanging by a tread" it meant the business was about ready to go under.
At any rate the old saying expresses that when the connection is weak and ready to break it can cause a total disconnect.

"Old Saying Talks About Stability" by Susan Pearl

"That's like having the carpet pulled right out from under you".


This Old Saying can really be applied to today's circumstances with COVID-19.  To have the carpet pulled out from under you, would quickly make you lose your footing.  Without footing a person loses balance and falls down.  Many businesses have lost their footing because they have lost the customer and consumer base.  It is like that base has been pulled right out from under them.

There are many other areas right now where it is "Like having the carpet pulled right out from under them".
Schools are trying to find safe ways for students to come back to school.  People are trying to figure out ways to safely bring back the base that is needed to stand and to stay open.

Hospitals are overworked and have only so many rooms available.  Rooms, staff and supplies are the base of the hospitals to accommodate and assist the ill.

As we continue forward let us wear a mask and practice social distancing.  It is doing our part for efforts to contain COVID-!9.  Each effort adds to hopefully bringing back the base to the areas that are struggling and need the base element to be in place for daily operation and stability.

"Old Saying Strikes Right on Point" by Susan Pearl

"That hit the nail on the head".

This Old Saying is such a simple way of expressing so much.  An uncomplicated way of acknowledging and agreeing that something is right on point.  Precisely!!! on point!!!
"That hit the nail on the head".
Some people have different points of view about issues.  Everyone has a right to his or her opinion and to be respected.  It takes more than one nail in the construction of a strong and sturdy dwelling. Diversity brings strength and upholding such a concept of equality for all is the precise agreement "that hit the nail on the head" for building and for bringing together what is right on point and right for the good of all.

"Life's Seasons Personal Review" by Susan Pearl

It's fun to be young
Not a care in the air
  and I could run anywhere.
Oh, the summer years of hot passion,
Long kisses
  and daisy petals wishes.
Then the Fall in life so brilliant to take in and embrace
 yet noticing the elasticity was changing in my face.
When winter came I was prepared for the contentment it brought.
And, I am thankful that through life there has been more good than not.

"Dates of Blogs for Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Blog dates for an additional 9 Old Sayings.  (91 in total)

Other blog dates for "Old Sayings"----4-19-2020,   4-26-2020,   5-3-2020,   5-9-2020,
                                                             5-30-2020,    6-26-2020, and today's date: 7-9-2020


7-8-2020

"Don't spill the beans".


7-7-2020

"If life gives you lemons, make lemonade".

"Waste not, want not".


7-6-2020

"If it was a snake it would have bit you".


7-3-2020

"He's still wet behind the ears".


7-2-2020

"Pushing the envelope".


7-1-2020

"If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen".


6-30-2020

"He stuck his foot in his mouth".

"Say what you mean and mean what you say".

"Old Saying Tells How to Keep a Secret" by Susan Pearl

"Don't spill the beans".


Surprise birthday parties were popular when I was growing up.  If you were told about a surprise party you couldn't "let it out" to anyone.  The secret had to be contained by not letting anyone else know.  Even buying a gift was a secretive mission.  By not telling anyone anything about it, that was "not spilling the beans".  It was fun to see the expression on the person's face when we all yelled "Surprise"!!----and the fun surprise birthday party had begun.
The secret had been kept, it was not let out, it stayed contained because people remembered:
"Don't spill the beans".

"Old Sayings" Endure Endearment" by Susan Pearl

"If life gives you lemons make lemonade".

"Waste Not, Want Not".


When I was growing up we were taught to "make do" with what we had.  We managed and we were creative and took pride in doing our best with what we had.  My mother was a widow with five children to raise and she could sew.  Talk about "putting the pedal to the metal" she put that sewing machine pedal down, down, down and away it went, sewing very fast.  She knew what she was doing and the hum from her bedroom was a very routine and soothing sound as we knew she was sewing.  She was a good cook and made things from scratch.  It was a way of life and it was taught with another old saying "waste not, want not".  It was a very beautiful life and we felt very loved and safe. I was not made fun of for my homemade clothes but I do remember one winter coat mother made me that had a gray rolled up  hood to form a collar on the deep green coat.  The folded gray hood made people take a second glance because they thought it looked like a gray cat.  We laughed, they mostly at themselves for thinking that.  My mother managed and "made do" with what we had and she taught it as a way of life.  "If life gives you lemons make lemonade." She cut out prayers from publications and make a booklet out of them.  She sewed a clear plastic holder to put the booklet in.  The plastic holder had a white plastic snap on it.
                           On the front of booklet she wrote, "Susan's Little Prayer Book".
 How sweet that memory is...as sweet as any handmade lemonade could be... and just as refreshing only in another way of renewal and gratitude for such thoughtfulness.

"Old Saying Has Humorous Observation" by Susan Pearl

"If it was a snake it would have bit you".

I think this Old Saying is a humorous way telling me that what I am looking for is really right there in front of my eyes but I am overlooking it.  I remember when someone would say this old saying to me I realized they had spotted what I was looking for and they were watching me overlook it.  So I would just stand still and look again and "sure enough" there it would be.   It was so close to me that  "if it were a snake it would have bit me".
Sometimes when I backtrack and look again for something where I had already looked I am surprised that I had overlooked it when it is in plain sight.  I laugh and think "if it was a snake it would have bit me" and wonder why I overlooked something so obvious being right there before my eyes and should have been found very easily.

"Old Saying Recommends Having Experience" by Susan Pearl

"He's still wet behind the ears".

When I heard this old saying as I was growing up it meant that someone was too young and didn't have enough of life's experiences to be selected for a position or be in charge.

All babies are born wet and have to be dried off.  This expression was used to indicate a view that a person was way too young for managing others because of inexperience in life with knowing the job.

"Old Saying Tells Onging Efforts of Pushing Forward" by Susan Pearl

"Pushing the envelope"


The "pushing of the envelope" is an actual way that a transaction would be completed.  A person would write down the amount he or she would pay for something.  Then that offer was put into an envelope and the envelope would be pushed across the table to the other person.  The other person would read the offer, consider what to do and decide. If a higher amount was the decision then that amount is written down.  The new offer was placed into the envelope and pushed acroos the table back to the other person again.  As so it would go until there came to be a time when one of them did not want to offer a higher amount.  The limit had been reached for purchasing the item.  They had "pushed the envelope" to set the highest limit that could be attained at that time and at that place.

There are many boundaries and limits that are being "pushed to new levels"-- for new records, new improvements with better results, and higher amounts of productivity each day.  Such efforts are not in an envelope but rather are the actions of many who are working hard to attain the highest standards for quality of life.

"Old saying Tells it Like it is" by Susan Pearl

"If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen".

Competition can be relentless and vindictive. Sometimes it feels like "the heat is on".  That makes for heated competition for the public to decide who wins and who doesn't.

I saw an elected official being greatly criticized for a decision he had made.  This elected official was asked at a meeting how he felt with so much criticism.  He answered, 'it comes with the territory".  So the word "kitchen" in the old saying refers to the arena of competition that a person "has to take the heat" whether it be politics, or another area to succeed to the top.  If a person can't take the heat it seems like the public opinion changes to have someone at the top who can,  "If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen".   If you choose to enter certain arenas of competition "taking the heat" comes with the territory of that particular arena.

"Old Saying Emphasizes to Think Before we Talk" by Susan Pearl

"He stuck his foot in his mouth".

"Say what you mean and mean what you say".


I think many of us can identify with this old saying because we have said something that didn't come out the way we meant it or we were unaware of all the facts and interpretations of what we had said being offensive and insensitive to others.

It is a stinging moment and humbling because the last thing that was intended to do was to offend someone.  It is a mistake so an apology or sincere explanation of the basis for the statement and correction of that basis is in order.

All we can do is hope that others will let it go and not hold such ill spoken words against us.  Once such words are said it can go either way.  Such spoken words that are painful to others may end a friendship by the divisiveness and separation such thoughtless words cause.

We have to take responsibility for what we say.  There is a consequence to our words that inflict a hurtful moment to others in an unkind or thoughtless way...…even if unintended the damage is real.

To say something hurtful and then to say "just kidding" doesn't make any sense to me. I go by another old saying:  "Say what you mean and mean what you say"--then chances are you won't "stick your foot in your mouth".

Dates of Blogs for "Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Blog dates for an additional 10 "Old Sayings"  (82 in total now)

Other blog dates for "Old Sayings" are:  4-19-2020,    4-26-2020,    5-3-2020,   5-9-2020,
                                                                     
                                                                                      5-30-2020,   ( 6-26-2020, today's date)



6-3-2020

"That's like comparing apples and oranges".


6-5-2020

"It only takes a small leak to sink a mighty vessel".

"We are only as strong as our weakest link".


6-6-2020

"If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck and walks like a duck, chances are it's a duck".


6-11-2020

"There's a light at the end of the tunnel".


6-14-2020

"Like walking on eggshells".


6-19-2020

"It ended on a sour note".

"It ended on a high note".


6-22-2020

They're the salt of the earth".


6-25-2020

"Don't bite the hand that feeds you."

"Old Saying is Like Artwork" by Susan Pearl

"Don't bite the hand that feeds you".

They say that good artwork is art that over time you look at it and you can see something new.  Something you haven't seen being there before.  I think sometimes that as we age we see things that we didn't see before in a lot of areas of our life.  This old saying is one of those times for me.
When I was very young I thought of a dog biting the hand of its owner when being fed.  That would be a "No-No".

Then in my middle years I thought of my paycheck and how it fed our family and that I would not do anything to cause harm to my employer.  My employer was the "hand" feeding me because I could buy groceries with my paycheck.

Then as I got older I see the "hand" that feeds us as the laborers in the field doing the work.  They are the ones who are actually putting the food into containers to leave the fields and be brought into the distribution process.

"Don't bite the hand that feeds you" is like artwork because over time I can see something new in it.

"Old Saying Describes People Who Want the Best for All" by Susan Pearl

"They're the salt of the earth".

When I was growing up this old saying was used to expressed sentiments or an opinion that another person is as good as people come.
As I have gotten older I have the thoughts of how salt is used to preserve certain items and that comes to mind.  I think "preservation and recognition of fairness" when I think of this this old saying.  There are things we truly want to preserve and we are responsible for doing so.  We have a responsibility to preserve our environment, we have a responsibility to preserve our freedoms and moral values.  We have a responsibility to treat others with respect for their rights and with dignity for their life.  I could go on and on about the important things that we hold dear and that we have been given through the lives and sacrifice of those who have gone before us.  We have to preserve the willingness to listen and to learn, to change and to attain peaceful and agreed upon solutions.
"They're the salt of the earth" means so much in so many ways.  There has been vast years of contributions of laboring hard works in inhuman conditions for our country to attain prosperity that need to be recognized and preserved in the rightful place of acknowledgement and gratitude they deserve.

"Old Sayings and Musical Notes" by Susan Pearl

"It ended on a sour note".

"It ended on a high note".

Sometimes we can describe a situation or setting that ended with the comparison to a musical note.
If things ended not mutually fine then one might say "It ended on a sour note".

If the situation or setting ended upbeat and mutually enjoyed then the comparison can be made that "It ended on a high note".

There is no such thing as a combination sour high note in these comparisons.  If it is sour- then it is sour- it ended in an unpleasant manner no matter how high the note .....it ended with not wanting more of the same because something had gone wrong and we would rather not subject ourselves to the unpleasantries any longer.

"Old Saying Illustrates An Applied Discretion" by Susan Pearl

"Like walking on eggshells".


The old saying "Like walking on eggshells" describes what it is like to maneuver through a very tense and volatile situation setting.  It is like "easing our way through" without adding anything that contributes to the volatility of the moment.   This is important because stress and tension is culmalative and such increases keep building up the pressure.  There can be internal pressures like strong and heated emotions and there can be external pressures like actions.  These pressures can be combined and rise quickly.

When we walk "like on eggshells" is because we don't want to add to the pressure of the setting situation with more tension and stress.  We try to ease our way through as carefully as we can because it a time of great caution---and all the while we are hoping for a peaceful resolution, a compromise, a CHANGE and a better way to go forward for all involved.

"Like walking on eggshells" is not a sign of weakness.  It is a sign of true awareness and recognition to the fact that it is time to stay calm unless the setting becomes dangerous to the life and welfare of others or to our own personal well being.

"Old Saying Surpasses Time Elements for Generations" by Susan Pearl

"There's a light at the end of the tunnel".


This old saying has been used while I grew up and through my adult life.  In my opinion, the meaning is encouraging us to keep going----don't give up---it will be worth it---it won't always be the way it is right now---things will get better---we will get through this to a bright day.

One time I said this old saying to a friend and I was surprised to hear this response,  "I just hope the light isn't a train".  So I thought it over and now I say "make sure you aren't following  train track through a tunnel.  Don't go into a train tunnel because the light you see is not the light of day but rather the light of a train.  In other words --be aware, listen, learn and keep going towards the goal of your dream and you'll get there, because, "There's a light at the end of the tunnel".

Imagine of the thrill of being involved in the actual hard work of tunneling in the making of the tunnel when the moment the breakthrough happens to see the light of day. Maybe the tunnel had begun to be made several generations ago and it was our turn to further it. No matter how dark and difficult the times are- keep believing that we will see the light of a new day.  It will be there and we will continue to work towards that breakthrough moment of seeing the light of a new day. We know it will come  It is a matter of hard work and time to reach it because each generation is called upon to do its part and these ongoing efforts will bring about the awaiting breakthrough.

"The Countdown is On" by Susan Pearl

The countdown is on to be "ten" times more aware of equal justice for all,
"Nine" times as kind and understanding,
"Eight" times more prompt in action and saying words of encouragement,
"Seven" times more willing to seek peaceful solutions that better all,
"Six" times more determined for the change to establish fair social justice
  by having "five" generations without seeing or being taught prejudice
  in any way, shape or form,
"Four" times more knowledgeable that by " beginning now" these generations will usher in a new era of social justice like a breath of fresh air to our nation that is of the utmost degree for the rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness for all-
Moat important is that through it all these "three" that will remain, Faith, Hope and Love
And the greatest of these is Love.
Love can take a divided "two",
And make it into an united "one" ---the countdown has begun.

"Old Saying Tells There's no Bargaining or Denial" by Susan Pearl

"If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck chances are it's a duck".


The irony of this old saying is that it is not about a duck.  It is about seeing something for what it is and  being able to name it for what it really is.

We have to name things for what they truly are and not allow for false hopes, false interpretations, false feelings or imaginary fantasies keep us from seeing things for what they really are....no matter who---no matter what.  It keeps us grounded.

"If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck chances are it is a duck"-----and we have to recognize things for what they are.  There is no bargaining--it is what it is---and we know it when we see it...because it is a fact based reality of recognition that cannot be denied.

"Old Sayings Show Why Things go Wrong" by Susan Pearl

"It only takes a small leak to sink a mighty vessel".

"We are only as strong as our weakest link".


Policies, procedures, manuals are there for a reason and for proper training of these protocols is very important but even more important is following them. There are people who don't want to follow the rules, or want to bend the rules, or want to push the rules  These people have to be kept in check or working with them turns into an uncomfortable form of peer pressure and with time these peer pressure bullies are then running the show and not the policies or protocols.

Sooner or later this will be exposed for what is.  It will bring about a failure in operation or a complete demise of any kind of premise the operation was thought to stand for.

Wherever we work we have to be in line with the professional rules and following policy and procedure that we have promised to follow and we have to enforce this proper protocol.  That will bring about an integrity that can be counted on to uphold and represent the policy procedure.  A policy and procedure that are the requirements to the utmost letter of the law for the fairness and protection of anyone who comes into contact with them---thus building trust....thus building success...that a future that is equally administered for the good of all can be built upon for generations to come.

IN MEMORY OF GEORGE FLOYD

Remembering George Floyd with deep condolence to his family.

Susan Pearl

"Old Saying Demonstrates Each is Fine in Itself" by Susan Pearl

"That's like comparing apples and oranges".


An apple and an orange are both a fruit.
One is orange in color and the other has a variety of colors. (mostly red, yellow, golden and green)
One has to be peeled and the other can be eaten with the skin.
One has a core and the other has sections.
One is soft and juicy and the other is crisp or a little softer.
Both have different  recognizable fragrances.

How can apples and oranges ever be compared?  Each are fine and wonderful in themselves.
Each is a fruit.
Both are delicious.

Some things aren't comparable and this old saying is used to express that.

"The One in a Mililon Pet Dog Talk" by Susan Pearl

"Where you've been?
In and outside and inside the house again-
Afraid you might miss something
  unless you come in and see what is going on?
You need to go out
  but want to stay inside both at the same time.
You've got to make up your mind
  because letting you  out and right back in is wearing me out.
Can't you stay outside for just a little bit
  without barking relentlessly to come back in?
Oh, well, they say that a dog is man's best friend-
  and you truly are that and I'm glad to have you.
Without a doubt I know you need to go out
and as quick as you can you will want back in-
So here we go again.
But could the real reason simply be
that you only want to be with me
and be by my side
and not miss our next pickup ride"?

I Wrote a Children's Song "I Like to Hum" by Susan Pearl

I like to hum-
Hmmmm ….Hmmmm …..Hmmmmm
I like to hum-
I really do
And you will too.
Hmmmmm …..Hmmmmmm …….Hmmmmm

I like to hum
When I look in the sky and see a bird fly by
Hmmm …..Hmmmm …..Hmmmmmm
I like to hum
in the sun
or in the rain
I hum the same.
Hmmmmm ….Hmmmm ……….Hmmm ……..
I love to hum
When I see a tree
or a buzzing bee
Bees buzz but I hum-
Hmmmm ….Hmmmm …..Hmmmm ……..

When I hum
as I work
The work feels like fun
as I hum.
Hmmmm …..Hmmmm ….Hmmmm …..
When I think of a beautiful horse
on the run,
or a walking penguin,
or the opening up of a  bloom on a flowers bud has begun-
I like to hum.
From the morning
till the day is done.
I like to hum-
Hmmm ….Hmmmm ….Hmmmm ….
Hmmmm ….Hmmmm ….Hmmmm …….

Dates of Blogs for "Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Blog dates for an additional 12 "Old Sayings"  (72 in total now)

Other blog dates for "Old Sayings" are;  4-19-2020,  4-26-2020,  5-3-2020,  5-9-2020,  5-30-2020


May 18,  2020

"They've got him over a barrel".


May 19, 2020

"That's the canary in the coal mine".


May 20. 2020

"You can't teach an old dog new tricks".


May 23, 2020

"Like a bull in a china shop".


May 26, 2020

"People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones".

"A bird in the hand is better than two in the bush".

"Every cloud has a silver lining".



May 27, 2020

'You can't change the spots on a leopard".

"You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear".



May 28, 2020

"Still waters run deep".


May 29, 2020

"All's well that ends well".

"A place for everything and everything in its place".

"Old Saying Shows Life Leads to New Beginings" by Susan Pearl

"All's well that ends well".



A caterpillar going into a cocoon and then emerging as a beautiful butterfly is a great example of "all's well that ends well".  There are so many changes for us to go through.  So many stages and phases to adjust to.  But yet a person manages as best possible with these natural processes of time and makes the most of each day.  To live a life of loving others and being loved by others is a beautiful thing.  All's well that ends well.   Think of the wisdom and experience attained and the maturity gained and the ability to become more and more of what we have been created to be with multiplying talents, with new insights and with strength of affirmation that there is more good than not and an unending thankfulness and appreciation for all we have been given with an underlying connection to a bigger vision through faith, having hope and with great love.  Such a vision shows that as things and certain settings end a new beauty is to be seen emerging for us to embrace the gift of this amazing new time of another aspect that by grace we have been allowed to see and grow from.
We become a part of this new beginning---'all's well that ends well".

"Old Saying Tells of a Finding Things System"" by Susan Pearl

"A place for everything and everything is in its place".



This old saying "a place for everything and everything in its place" was taught to me as a way of saying to return things to where they belong after I used them.  That way the next person who wanted to use the item could immediately find it and not have to hunt for it.  It was taught as a thoughtful thing to do.
However, we did have one "junk drawer" and that was the drawer that held a lot of handy items that may be needed.  A lot of times I was asked to get something and told, "It's in the junk drawer"....and , sure enough it was there.....and , it was returned to the "junk drawer", after being used.  The funny thing is that the things in the "junk drawer" was not junk.  String, twine, claw hammer, screwdriver, plyers, electrical tape, masking tape, scotch tape, ruler, tape measurer, glue, scissors, rubber bands, thumb tacks etc..  Next to the silverware drawer I think it was the other most used drawer we had in the house.
Throughout my life, no matter where we lived, we have had a "junk drawer".  It has helped so much for having "a place for everything and everything is in its place".  But nowadays I think it really should be called "an utility drawer".

"Old Saying Identifies a Quiet Strength" by Susan Pearl

"Still waters run deep".


When I was growing up I heard this old saying used to describe the character of a consistently calm person.  It refers that there is a depth of character inside that person and that is why the person can remain calm and still during times of great pressure and stress. There is a special presence to such people and their character strength can be counted on to do the right thing time after time.  They are at peace within themselves and that peace is the deep depth of their character that causes them to have a stillness and a calming effect---yes---"still waters run deep". There is nothing shallow about such people with a deep character who live what they believe to be true for the betterment of all.

"Old Sayings Show Limits" by Susan Pearl

"You can't change the spots on a leopard".

"You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear".

Sometimes we have to face our own limits and recognize that there are just some things that we cannot do and not ever change.  It is just not going to happen----ever.  It's a certain fact that won't change.  Go with the facts and not feelings.  As much as we want to, we can't make it happen.  I have been told that difference being a child and being an adult is that the adult know his or her limits and the child doesn't know limits.
We have to be adults and face our own limitations. We will be better off for knowing this and not spending our time attempting to do what cannot be done.

"Old Saying Has Good Advice" by Susan Pearl

"People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones".


 In my opinion, this old saying is telling us that it is best not to find fault or gossip about others or be nosy about other people's business.  Because, none of us are perfect.  We are have our own set of problems and troubles to deal with. For us to throw rocks at others for the way they are living their lives is not appropriate when we ourselves need to work on our own life. We ourselves are just as vulnerable and if word gets out that we are talking about others lives in a critical and negative way the people who hear what we are saying may think "who do we think we are to be talking about others when our life isn't what it should be either".....and that is why---"People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones".

"Old Saying Tells to Quit While We're Ahead" by Susan Pearl

"A bird in the hand is better than two in the bush".


Sometimes it is just best to be glad for what we have and know it is a certainty.  Having one certainty that is in our hand is better than two uncertainties that we don't have for sure.  I have heard this old saying used to express that the person wants to pass on an option of pursuing uncertainty and to stop ---and to keep what they have. "Not going on" is the decision.  The person is very satisfied and glad for what they do have because they know "a bird in the hand is better than two in the bush".  They do not desire to work or put efforts into trying for an uncertainty when they are happy with what they have.

"Old Saying Expresses Good Part of Every Cloud" by Susan Pearl

Every cloud has a silver lining

I can't help but notice the word "every".  That word "every" really stands out to me.  It doesn't say some clouds,  every other cloud, but it says "every" cloud has a silver lining and the word "every" is important to me.  That's like saying "You can count on it"---"no matter what"--a silver lining will be there--- even if it is eventually when we see it.

Within all of the bad there will be something good that shows.  We have seen this first hand with the COVID-19 pandemic.  We have seen so much courage, so much selflessness, so much help --there is no way to express it all or tell of all the kindness.

All through life we will have different difficult times.  These difficult times, like clouds, will come and they will go.  "Every cloud has a silver lining."  Even if things don't turn out the way we hoped they would--- if there has been even a little bit of progress---that is a silver lining.

"Memorial Day Remembrance" by Susan Pearl

Remembering all the men and women who gave their life for our country,
  remembering all those who served our country,
Remembering their sacrifices for freedom's way--
We say "thank you" for what has been done for our freedom
    and for the freedom of generations to come.   "Thank You".

"Old Saying Shows That Some Things Don't go Together" by Susan Pearl

"Like a bull in a china shop"


When I was growing up the most beautiful table setting dishes (called china) were used for special occasions.
This old saying is asking us to imagine a bull in a china shop filled with beautiful breakable items and realize some things don't go together.

Some things definitely do not belong together at the same time.  For example:  A  showing of a very exquisite teacup collection with an elegant outdoor lovely garden luncheon is not the same place that people should be power spraying their dirty bicycles while listening to ear piercing music.  Either one is fine but both together is a disaster.  The power sprayers and ear piercing music at an elegant luncheon is "Like a bull in a china shop".....very disruptive (to say the least)  or is the garden luncheon disruptive to the power spraying bicycle with loud music gathering?  It is just fair to say some things are fine in themselves but don't go together for things to go well.

"Old Saying is About an Old Dog and Me" by Susan Pearl

"You can't teach an old dog new tricks".

I remember seeing an interview with a dog trainer when the interviewer asked if some dogs are harder to train than others and why would that be. The dog trainer answered, "All dogs train the same if they are willing to please".

I then remembered how when I was young it was important for me to please people.  The happiness of others and to keep things going well were my rewards.  I made promises just to say "yes" and to get them to stop asking me.  My heart wasn't in a lot of these promises and, as a matter of fact, I even resented being asked to do so much for others all of the time.  Finally, I learned to say "no".  The world didn't stop but some of these friendships did end.  I guess I had been an enabler and a rescuer without knowing it and I had been part of a dysfunctional relationship.  My 'treat" had now changed to still wanting the best but it had to come without me doing the other person's part in any way.  To see them succeed without me was my "reward"- "treat".

Now I am older and I don't want to please anyone anymore and consequently I still don't jump through the hoops they hold out for me to jump through.   So I definitely know, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks" because it is "not important to the old dog to please" the trainer anymore and to the dog is no longer worth the effort to try to learn something new for the same treat.

As long as I live I hope to do new and interesting things but they will be new things that I
want to do and enjoy---not what someone else wants for me to do when I know I really don't have that much interest in it and it is not important to me to say "yes".. To true friends things like this don't matter because there is a mutual respect for each other.

"Old Saying Tells Exactly What To Watch For" by Susan Pearl

"That's the canary in the coal mine".

Some lethal fumes are odorless.  These odorless fumes can also be explosive. I have learned that such fumes can be in the coalmines. So in a coal miners setting a canary in a cage would be taken into the mine.  If the bird was healthy the miners knew the air was alright to breathe.  But if the bird showed signs of being overcome that meant the air was dangerous and to get out.  Either way---"the canary was what needed to be watched for safety".

This expression is used to emphasize what needs to be watched in a dangerous setting. That there is a way of knowing in evaluating a situation for danger and safety
Today there are high tech meters that give readings of the quality of air and sound alarm when the air shows signs of being toxic.
A toxic sign is giving warning for immediate action to be taken or there may be loss of life.
"That's the canary in the coalmine " is like saying "That is what we have to watch for safety to avoid deadly consequences.".
Different settings will have different things to watch for conditions to stay safe. If conditions show a sign that toxic levels are immanent than immediate action has to be taken to prevent the loss of life.  Some deadly situations are invisible and we need to a way to be watchful for the protection from potential harm and tragedy.
Smoke detectors and carbon monoxide detectors are warning devices to take immediate action and evacuation.
In dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic there are warning signs when immediate action will need to be taken for the protection and safety of others.  Knowing what to watch is greatly valuable in the prevention of casualties and catastrophes.

"Old Saying Shows Importance of Meeting the Needs of Others" by Susan Pearl

"They've got him over a barrel".


Over the years there have been times when different things are the things that I had a need for and had to have.  There was time that if I worked I had the need for childcare. Now our children are grown up but I can understand it when people need childcare in order to work.  They are over a barrel because that is something they have to have and they need other people to provide it.

There are people who are in need of daily medication in order to live.  They have to have the medication  They are over a barrel because what they need is held by other people.

It is a hard place to be  "to be held over a barrel" but it the way of life for many people and we should be kind and sympathetic, have empathy and not allow them to be taken advantage of because that setting is a "need that has to be met" and there should be several avenues who would provide for that need in a fair and timely manner.   Lets strive for avenues to meet the needs of people so that no one feels being held "over a barrel"' and have options and choices that will meet each need.

Dates of blogs for "Old Sayings" by Susan Pearl

Dates for an additional 10 blogs of "Old Sayings" ( 60 in total for now )

Other blog dates of Old Sayings are:  4-19-2020,  4-26-2020,  5-3-2020,  5-9-2020


May 10, 2020

"It's the thought that counts".


May 11, 2020

"The proof is in the pudding."

"You can fool some of the people some of the time,
You can fool part of the people part of the time,
But you can't fool all of the people all of the time".


May 12, 2020

"It's better late than never".


May 13, 2020

"An empty wagon makes a lot of noise".

"If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is".


May 15, 2020

"An idle mind is the devil's workshop".


May 16, 2020

"They swallowed it- hook, line and sinker".

"Their bark is worse than their bite".

"Like going on a wild goose chase".

"Old Saying Tells to Not be Gullible" by Susan Pearl

"They swallowed it, hook, line and sinker".

Being naïve and trusting are really not bad traits but the problem that these traits can make a person vulnerable to be taken advantage of by others.

We have to stick with the facts and the facts are that not all people are nice and some of them are looking for susceptible people to believe the lies they are telling.  No matter how they look, as they can look the part of being genuine and sincere, no matter what they say, as they have been skilled for buzz words that they notice show an inroad for more conversation, no matter how coincidental as it may seem (for instance you are in recent need of what they have or a service they can provide)---REMEMBER a stranger is a stranger and don't ever forget it.
Be aware and keep evaluating and don't be gullible---don't swallow it hook, line and sinker because then you will be caught by them and that is exactly what they wanted to do (to hook you).  Don't be gullible.  There "are" coincidences in that strangers can come along right when we need what they have to offer but verify authenticity and find and cross check references before taking any action that can set you and your family up for problems or harm...…. beware and be aware in not taking their bait.

"Old Saying Surprisingly Doesn't Bite" by Susan Pearl

"Their bark is worse than their bite".

There are some people whose demeanor comes across as being gruff, unfriendly, stern, critical and indifferent.  It makes a person wonder if they are like this on a good day what would they be like on a bad day.  But when the bad day comes it is noticeable that they are not any harder to get along with, even in a very sudden high stress situation.  It turns out that their reactions and responses are better than a person thought would be and that is because "Their bark is worse than their bite".

"Old Saying Spends Day Going and There " by Susan Pearl

"It was like going on a wild goose chase".

In my opinion this old saying is referring to the times when we start out our day thinking we can find what we want at a certain place but it is not there.  So then we go to another place and it is not there either.  Then we are told that there may be one left if we go to a different place.  When we get there it is just sold out.  We have a hunch that maybe it could be at a remote, out of the way, place and it is not there either.  So at the end of the day we come home with absolutely nothing and we have spent the whole day looking to find what we thought we could find.  We have just been on a "wild goose chase".